I was watching a movie yesterday and came across a frame of mind I think is revelant in most all humans these days. "This is the life I have chosen, so I have to live with it.....there are no second chances after you settle."
Now there is a comment I often use with my client's, "stop living your life like there is a basket of chances in the closet and you can grab one every time you make a mistake with the one you have now." As I see it, these are two differing opinions and yet I agree with and understand both.
So I have put some thought into this this morning, and I have come up
with this. I do believe that people live their life as if there is
chance after chance and they can just make mistakes and not worry for
the consequences. I also believe that many don't try to better their
lives because they made their bed now they have to lie in it. I suggest
there is a happy medium though. It lends to my previous writings around
learning about yourself and understanding who you are supposed to be.
Wasting one's life by making bad choices, hurting others, lying to
yourself or others, stealing, cheating and basically being unkind is
unacceptable behavior and if you keep grabbing chance after chance to
keep repeating stupid mistakes.....the bad is on you. But if you can
educate yourself about who you are and what you are intended to be by
design.....then apply that knowledge to your decisions and
relationships......you are not wasting chances.
Therefore I suggest that the bed you have "made" can be "changed" like
all dirty bedding should be. But before you are allowed to change it,
you must first understand why it is you chose that set of sheets to lie
on in the first place. My point is, once we are educated in the ways in
which we should live our lives....each person in their own
right.....then the "right action" choices can be made. There should be
no more allowances for others to hurt us or vice versa...because now we
know the "right" way to handle ourselves.
I also believe this does not have to wait to come with age....the
wisdom I mean.....to be "old" enough to know better.....so this brings
me to the pay it forward concept. The children in our world should be
taught to "learn" themselves from birth. That is to say our original
"blue print" design. This "box" we exist in is not the real deal. Not
all there is.....and those in the psychic realm know this. We need to
touch as many lives as we can with our gifts to teach them their true
depths.....so that as new children they come into this world still in
touch with the Great Light Source and they are not afraid to ....for
instance: see faeries, hear voices, see dead people, talk to animals,
know the weather, predict change.......and so many more gifts to
numerous to mention.
Then we will not have people feeling they are stuck in hell on
earth....for when they were a child they were guided to the right
choices.....we will not have women in abusive relationships, because as
babies they were allowed to be free spirits and say what came to their
hearts. There will not be ADD and ADHD because those labels are for
children and adults who were not allowed to express what their gifts
were when they first arrived here.
I feel strongly that we choose this human existence. That the lessons
in each of our lives are set forth before we are even born to this
life. That free will chances and unforseen events can change the
outcome of our lives I also believe. I have so stepped away from that
place in my life where I was a woman unhappy, stuck in my life. When
you think it...IT IS. I found this on a friends facebook this
morning....."Whenever I am feeling good, I am Attracting
good"........and let me tell you I'm feeling very very good......!"
What a powerful message. Such a simple thot, a simple and true thot.
Place this thot into your daily mantras....into you life, and say it
out loud.....and soon, all you will have to do is think it when
something sets forth to knock you off course.....oh, and, change that
BED you have made of your life.....LOL!
MsPeg is very direct and honest. Her moto is say what you mean and mean what you say.